Wednesday, December 10, 2008

HOW TO BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

You want to have a more fulfilling relationship with you partner but not sure, Where to start? & How to start? Some simple ways are given here to build a more committed, satisfying relationship, which will last all through your LIEF.

Either you’re nurturing a budding romance or you’ve been married. You could hold the promise of a more committed, fulfilling and loving relationship , if you’re willing to do a little work.. You not sure Where to start? Here is a expert advice to make close relationships – building suggestions.

LISTENING

Truly listening, can reduce conflict makes more trusty, and takes it to a more satisfying partnership. Listening may sound simple, but it also requires better half is speaking with each other while your are in the same room.
Instead of watching television, off the television, make a full attention & eye contact towords your partner. And also don’t forget to follow up on what you hear. These things are very much important when your partner is upset. Either is a problem or there is any dispute will find a way, if you have listened carefully. These things requires practice for some.





















ALWAYS LOOK FOR POSITIVES

In your first meeting, you pay attention to all the things you like. But as time goes on and on you start to take that for granted and focus on what bothers you. Make relationship positive, if it becomes more and more negative than positive, you break up.
Make a conscious effort to focus on the things you like about your partner. Your partner has many good qualities, as well as things that drive you crazy. Look for the positive, keep in your mind and don’t think about negative. Notice small positive things to remember them.



MAKE A SPEECH

Finding a fault of your partner not only creates tension, but it also gets you nowhere. If you’re nagging, your partner will tune you out. Instead of saying what you don’t like, say what you would prefer by giving alternatives for that try to have a dialogue or speech.
Don’t imbalance any criticisms with a heavy dose of positive feedback. While making a request that could be seen as nagging, take the edge off by expressing appreciation for your partner’s good qualities. Whenever you want to ask for a change, your partner will be more motivated to please you if he or she feels appreciated.



















ENSURE ABOUT TIME

Probably you have heard the idea before make dates and keep them. Keeping ‘couple time’ in your dairy reinforces your sense of dedication to each other. A couples benefit when they ‘feel’ commitment. Without including friends, relatives or any body make these private time special of your LIFE.
Please avoid the mistake of limiting your interaction to designated couple time. Every day you try to enjoy each other’s company for atleast a few minutes, if possible spontaneously, especially in the morning, end of the day and right before bed. At that time you talk about positive things and it will make a big impression. Don’t miss make a special point of greeting each other at the end of the day. When he / she in the home, you first stop what you’re doing, as your partner comes and spend a moment together acting as you are important for me.




OFTEN TOUCH IMPORTANT

In a better relationship, both communication is important. These are physical and emotional. These two types of communication relieves tension and shows your partner that you care. You go out of your way to kiss and embrace during the day. If you’ve had a fight with your partner, always sleep together in the same bed. Never sleep in a separate bed or in a separate room.

Pune is a historic city of great chatrapati shivaji maharaj a raja of hindu swaraj.
Pune is 160 km from mumbai, from kolhapur 250 km, from nasik 220 km and from aurangabad it's 270 km. shaniwar wada is built by great madhavrao peshava. aA dagdu sheth ganapati is famous ganpati. Parvati tekadi, and muncipal corporation which is completed just silver jublee.
Near to pune there is pimpri chinchwad city which is called twin city of pune.
Abhakti shakti shilpa is his own new identity. Pimpri chinchwad muncipal corporation was numbar one muncipal corporation in Asia in Octroy. It's also called as garden city.
Now insdustrial city is chancing in shopping malls. Software companies and IT parks are in HINJAWADI which is in muncipal limit. New pune - mumbai express way and Balewadi SPORT CITY ,baner,wakad,mercidez benz telco company, bajaj auto changed city look.
Near to Pune ( Maharashtra ) that is in pimpri chinchwad - NIGDI ( MUNCIPAL CORPORATION ), there is one family.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

HOW TO BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

You want to have a more fulfilling relationship with you partner but not sure, Where to start? & How to start? Some simple ways are given here to build a more committed, satisfying relationship, which will last all through your LIEF.

Either you’re nurturing a budding romance or you’ve been married. You could hold the promise of a more committed, fulfilling and loving relationship , if you’re willing to do a little work.. You not sure Where to start? Here is a expert advice to make close relationships – building suggestions.

LISTENING

Truly listening, can reduce conflict makes more trusty, and takes it to a more satisfying partnership. Listening may sound simple, but it also requires better half is speaking with each other while your are in the same room.
Instead of watching television, off the television, make a full attention & eye contact towords your partner. And also don’t forget to follow up on what you hear. These things are very much important when your partner is upset. Either is a problem or there is any dispute will find a way, if you have listened carefully. These things requires practice for some.





















ALWAYS LOOK FOR POSITIVES

In your first meeting, you pay attention to all the things you like. But as time goes on and on you start to take that for granted and focus on what bothers you. Make relationship positive, if it becomes more and more negative than positive, you break up.
Make a conscious effort to focus on the things you like about your partner. Your partner has many good qualities, as well as things that drive you crazy. Look for the positive, keep in your mind and don’t think about negative. Notice small positive things to remember them.



MAKE A SPEECH

Finding a fault of your partner not only creates tension, but it also gets you nowhere. If you’re nagging, your partner will tune you out. Instead of saying what you don’t like, say what you would prefer by giving alternatives for that try to have a dialogue or speech.
Don’t imbalance any criticisms with a heavy dose of positive feedback. While making a request that could be seen as nagging, take the edge off by expressing appreciation for your partner’s good qualities. Whenever you want to ask for a change, your partner will be more motivated to please you if he or she feels appreciated.



















ENSURE ABOUT TIME

Probably you have heard the idea before make dates and keep them. Keeping ‘couple time’ in your dairy reinforces your sense of dedication to each other. A couples benefit when they ‘feel’ commitment. Without including friends, relatives or any body make these private time special of your LIFE.
Please avoid the mistake of limiting your interaction to designated couple time. Every day you try to enjoy each other’s company for atleast a few minutes, if possible spontaneously, especially in the morning, end of the day and right before bed. At that time you talk about positive things and it will make a big impression. Don’t miss make a special point of greeting each other at the end of the day. When he / she in the home, you first stop what you’re doing, as your partner comes and spend a moment together acting as you are important for me.




OFTEN TOUCH IMPORTANT

In a better relationship, both communication is important. These are physical and emotional. These two types of communication relieves tension and shows your partner that you care. You go out of your way to kiss and embrace during the day. If you’ve had a fight with your partner, always sleep together in the same bed. Never sleep in a separate bed or in a separate room.

Monday, August 4, 2008

HOW TO BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

You want to have a more fulfilling relationship with you partner but not sure, Where to start? & How to start? Some simple ways are given here to build a more committed, satisfying relationship, which will last all through your LIEF.

Either you’re nurturing a budding romance or you’ve been married. You could hold the promise of a more committed, fulfilling and loving relationship , if you’re willing to do a little work.. You not sure Where to start? Here is a expert advice to make close relationships – building suggestions.

LISTENING

Truly listening, can reduce conflict makes more trusty, and takes it to a more satisfying partnership. Listening may sound simple, but it also requires better half is speaking with each other while your are in the same room.
Instead of watching television, off the television, make a full attention & eye contact towords your partner. And also don’t forget to follow up on what you hear. These things are very much important when your partner is upset. Either is a problem or there is any dispute will find a way, if you have listened carefully. These things requires practice for some.





















ALWAYS LOOK FOR POSITIVES

In your first meeting, you pay attention to all the things you like. But as time goes on and on you start to take that for granted and focus on what bothers you. Make relationship positive, if it becomes more and more negative than positive, you break up.
Make a conscious effort to focus on the things you like about your partner. Your partner has many good qualities, as well as things that drive you crazy. Look for the positive, keep in your mind and don’t think about negative. Notice small positive things to remember them.



MAKE A SPEECH

Finding a fault of your partner not only creates tension, but it also gets you nowhere. If you’re nagging, your partner will tune you out. Instead of saying what you don’t like, say what you would prefer by giving alternatives for that try to have a dialogue or speech.
Don’t imbalance any criticisms with a heavy dose of positive feedback. While making a request that could be seen as nagging, take the edge off by expressing appreciation for your partner’s good qualities. Whenever you want to ask for a change, your partner will be more motivated to please you if he or she feels appreciated.



















ENSURE ABOUT TIME

Probably you have heard the idea before make dates and keep them. Keeping ‘couple time’ in your dairy reinforces your sense of dedication to each other. A couples benefit when they ‘feel’ commitment. Without including friends, relatives or any body make these private time special of your LIFE.
Please avoid the mistake of limiting your interaction to designated couple time. Every day you try to enjoy each other’s company for atleast a few minutes, if possible spontaneously, especially in the morning, end of the day and right before bed. At that time you talk about positive things and it will make a big impression. Don’t miss make a special point of greeting each other at the end of the day. When he / she in the home, you first stop what you’re doing, as your partner comes and spend a moment together acting as you are important for me.




OFTEN TOUCH IMPORTANT

In a better relationship, both communication is important. These are physical and emotional. These two types of communication relieves tension and shows your partner that you care. You go out of your way to kiss and embrace during the day. If you’ve had a fight with your partner, always sleep together in the same bed. Never sleep in a separate bed or in a separate room.

Sunday, February 4, 2007

RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN CHILD & PARENTS


Think of them as fellow adults, rather than as your parents.

“ If you treat them as fellow adults, they’re more likely to treat you like one”. A simple way to do this is to ask yourself a question before each interaction with them.“ How would I act in this situation if mom or dad was a friend or an acquaintance ?” Then behave accordingly.

Taking with parents as a friends.

Don’t limit your conversations strictly to family memories, or gossip about family members, or your personal life. There’s a whole wide world out there - why not explore it with mother & father as you would with a friend?

Keep your sense of humor.

When you’re dealing with your parents, laughter can be a life saver – both to help you handle the stress of dealing with sometimes crotchety individuals and to help you bond together by telling jokes or sharing some comics. If you can laugh together, you’re doing okay.

Ask parents advice or opinion when you require.

Asking for a parents advice is sometimes really a way of asking for approval, when you’re an adult, take decisions on your own. If your parents are bent on offering you advice whether asked or not, smile ,nod, and take it in.



Be honest about who you are and what you want.

May be there are things about your growing up that your parents regret. But as long as you don’t regret it, they have to adjust. Be clear about who you want to be and help your parents accept you on your terms.


Grant them their independence too

Sometimes it’s the grown – up kid who dosent’s want to cut the nurturing relationship off. If you are past twenty five and still find it necessary to talk to mother every night, or immediately turn to your father for a house repair rather than your spouse, or automatically assume your parents will baby – sit the children whenever you need to be out, then you may be the problem, not your folks. They deserve freedom too.

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIP BY THREE LITTLE WORD

A very happy,joyful couple celebrated Golden Jubilee Wedding Anniversary. In these fifty years marriage life, they handle responsibilities very well. They enjoy their separate involvements as well as their shared life together. They seem to have great respect to each other. On this occasion they were asked for the success of their marriage life.They said there were three little words that had contributed greatly to the success of their better-relationship.
Every body expected that, these three words were "I Love You" or "I Am Sorry". But those three successive words were "May be you're right".
These three words were taking arrogance out of their stand and acknowledges the legitimacy of the other's point of view. "May be you're right",these three little words have had a wonderfully positive and unexpected impact on their marriage and also build their Better-Relationship.

Saturday, January 13, 2007

HOW TO BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

HOW TO BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIPS
AVOID PREMARITAL SEX


The relationship between premarital sexual activity may result term risk of divorce.
There is a considerably higher risk of marital disruption in those women , who are sexually active before to marriage that means in virgin brides.
A bivariate probit model is to examines following three possible explanation for positive and better – relationship.

A) An indirect effect through intervening “high risk” behaviors.

B) A direct causal effect.

C) A selectivity effect representing prior differences between virgins and nonvirgins .

After observing such type of cases nonvirgins are facing a much higher risk of a divorce than a virgin. So for the positive relationship or building better relationship inbetween long time is required to avoid premarital sex.

Friday, January 12, 2007

HOW TO BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

You want to have a more fulfilling relationship with you partner but not sure, Where to start? & How to start? Some simple ways are given here to build a more committed, satisfying relationship, which will last all through your LIEF.

Either you’re nurturing a budding romance or you’ve been married. You could hold the promise of a more committed, fulfilling and loving relationship , if you’re willing to do a little work.. You not sure Where to start? Here is a expert advice to make close relationships – building suggestions.

LISTENING

Truly listening, can reduce conflict makes more trusty, and takes it to a more satisfying partnership. Listening may sound simple, but it also requires better half is speaking with each other while your are in the same room.
Instead of watching television, off the television, make a full attention & eye contact towords your partner. And also don’t forget to follow up on what you hear. These things are very much important when your partner is upset. Either is a problem or there is any dispute will find a way, if you have listened carefully. These things requires practice for some.

ALWAYS LOOK FOR POSITIVES

In your first meeting, you pay attention to all the things you like. But as time goes on and on you start to take that for granted and focus on what bothers you. Make relationship positive, if it becomes more and more negative than positive, you break up.
Make a conscious effort to focus on the things you like about your partner. Your partner has many good qualities, as well as things that drive you crazy. Look for the positive, keep in your mind and don’t think about negative. Notice small positive things to remember them.

MAKE A SPEECH

Finding a fault of your partner not only creates tension, but it also gets you nowhere. If you’re nagging, your partner will tune you out. Instead of saying what you don’t like, say what you would prefer by giving alternatives for that try to have a dialogue or speech.
Don’t imbalance any criticisms with a heavy dose of positive feedback. While making a request that could be seen as nagging, take the edge off by expressing appreciation for your partner’s good qualities. Whenever you want to ask for a change, your partner will be more motivated to please you if he or she feels appreciated.

ENSURE ABOUT TIME

Probably you have heard the idea before make dates and keep them. Keeping ‘couple time’ in your dairy reinforces your sense of dedication to each other. A couples benefit when they ‘feel’ commitment. Without including friends, relatives or any body make these private time special of your LIFE.
Please avoid the mistake of limiting your interaction to designated couple time. Every day you try to enjoy each other’s company for atleast a few minutes, if possible spontaneously, especially in the morning, end of the day and right before bed. At that time you talk about positive things and it will make a big impression. Don’t miss make a special point of greeting each other at the end of the day. When he / she in the home, you first stop what you’re doing, as your partner comes and spend a moment together acting as you are important for me.

OFTEN TOUCH IMPORTANT

In a better relationship, both communication is important. These are physical and emotional. These two types of communication relieves tension and shows your partner that you care. You go out of your way to kiss and embrace during the day. If you’ve had a fight with your partner, always sleep together in the same bed. Never sleep in a separate bed or in a separate room.

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